Have you really been able to live your own life?

Have you really been able to live your own life? Or, it is just impulses, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, desires, planning, behavioral patterns etc. present in your mind live your life? Or, it is just the expectations, demands, needs and beliefs of your family, society and people around you live your life?

Have you ever been able to be just in your being free from all thoughts, emotions, desires, planning, actions etc.?

If you have never realized the pristine serenity and bliss of eternal and infinite existence, then you have not been living your life; rather your life is just a tool of impulses, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, desires, planning, behavioral patterns etc. present in your mind or of your family, society and people around you? You have not been living your life.

Come, let us explore and live true authentic life which is marked with eternity, infinity and Ultimate Bliss!

Decision Making

For making best decision in life, the perfect balance between emotions and rational thinking is must.

If your decision making is based on fear or greed or hate or any negative mental factor, then that decision is bound to bring misery and sufferings in life.

If your decision making process is based on exploring novelty, curiosity, courage, insight, then that decisions bring joy and freedom in your life.

Relationship

If you want someone in your life because you have some void or vacuum or some deprivation and you want to fill up this void, vacuum or deprivation, then you are not in love with the person rather you are loving just yourself. In fact you want to serve your own purpose as you yourself are in the center of this whole interaction or so called relationship. You simply want to use the person consciously or unconsciously.

Relationship based on just seeking and serving own materialistic interest is bound to result in conflicts and finally wither away.

Love

 If your interaction with opposite gender expands your consciousness, then it is pure love. And if it shrinks your consciousness, then it is just lust. In love one exists for others while in lust one consciously or unconsciously intends to use, consume and exhaust existence of others.

When you are in ecstasy, overflowing with Joy and then you need a person to share your exuberance with the person, then you are in love with this person.

In the process of actual love, the lover and the beloved get merged in and with each other. Two becomes One. This Oneness is Godly. Two is gross and worldly.

Ordinary, Extra-ordinary and Supreme Mind

The mind which is engaged with thoughts related to materiality and negative emotions only like anger, jealousy, greed, fear, doubt, lust etc. most of the time, is the ordinary and gross mind.

The mind which is engaged with creativity, intellectual pursuit, exploration beyond materiality, philanthropy, spirituality, meta-physics, compassion, love etc. is extra-ordinary mind.

The mind which is aware of self is the Supreme Mind.